When you have sex with someone you like/love vs someone you're just trying to "get it in with", how do you feel as a person? Is the sex in and of itself different? And is there a difference between just having sex and making love?
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How you feel as person determines how you feel about your sexuality and ways in which you act within it. Figure out your intentions behind your sexual acts and you'll understand better how you feel after the fact.
There is difference between fucking, having sex and making love. Its like the difference between Chef Boyardee, Olive Garden and Maggianos. Depends on what you have a taste for and none of the three will ever be the other.
well, i've never had sex with someone that i wasn't feeling, in some way or another. there has always been an attraction. however, one guy, i knew it was going no where. so, in that case, sometimes i felt bad, especially because of our situations. [ugh! i know] but i cared for him, just knew there wouldn't be more than what was going on. not really an emotional connection or anything. and yes, the sex is different. it's never as sensual. it's just kind of ... sex. you get yours, i get mine. versus someone that you actually care about is willing to sacrifice theirs for yours. and vice versa, if not both. sex is just that: sex. it can ruthless. it can be dirty. it can be anything. with anyone. but making love is different. you feel different. it's not so much about getting off as it is enjoying being with someone you love. and showing that. however, don't get me wrong, you can definitely just have great sex with someone you love. when i hear making love, i think of sensual sex. emotional sex.
There is definantly a difference between making love and having sex. When your just having sex, it doesnt matter if the person means anything to you or not. Often times you could care less whether or not this person remained in your life or not after its all said and done. When its just sex, most of the time your emotions are disconnected from the act, except those emotions that you use to propel yourself to an orgasm, since sex is just as mental as it is physical
Making love is something totally different. You are not just having sex, you are trying to physically, emotionally and spiritually make a connection with another person. Its not just penis or vagina that your feeling, its everything. You feel the way he/she looks at you, the way he/she touches you, the way he/she makes you feel. When you make love, its not just about the orgasm, its about whats in your heart.
Ive truly never had sex with someone that I was in love with, because i have never truly fallen in love yet. I've had plenty of just sex, and a lot of those times i felt horrible afterwards. So I still wait for the day when I can have sex with someone that I truly love and care for. But until then...meaningless sex it is!!!! LOL
I think there's a huge difference between f*$#ing and making love. I agree with what people already said, making love is an emotional connection. It's to communicate love without words. It's more accepting, nourishing, protecting, even celebrating the whole person during sex - their spiritual, mental/intellectual, and emotional aspects as well. It's giving of love and less selfish.
I love the Chef Boyardee, Olive Garden, and Maggianos comparison. I really want Maggianos. ;-)
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